Hawthorne House Blog

Thanks for vising the Hawthorne House blog! Here you will find tips and tricks to planning your wedding, real wedding inspiration, advice from local professionals and more! Scroll through to see what article catches your eye or sort by the categories listed below to see only the articles relevant to what you want help with. Happy reading!

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BUILDING A LAYOUT AT HAWTHORNE HOUSE

Our typical guest count is 100-300 guests which is a massive range. It seems wild that we would be able to host 100 guests without the room feeling empty and 300 guests without the room feeling cramped, but we have mastered the floorplan jig to ensure you and your guests are comfortable no matter how many loved ones attend the wedding. Use this as a guide to prepare for your walk through at Hawthorne House and as you start making decisions (such as floral!) that may revolve around the layout.

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TIMELESS + DREAMY OUTDOOR SUMMER AFFAIR

Emily + Will had brought their timeless wedding vision to life at Hawthorne House with an outdoor wedding and party no guest will forget! Their attention to detail throughout planning was impeccable and it shows in the relaxed getting ready photos- they truly thought of everything before the wedding day so that when the day came, they could simply enjoy it! This dreamy summer wedding started with the cutest proposal story and Emily leaves some golden nuggets for all you currently engaged couples on how to enjoy planning and bring the day of your dreams to life!

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SETTING UP A HOTEL ROOM BLOCK

It doesn’t take long to set up a hotel room block and CAN be a complicated process, but it doesn’t NEED to be! By reserving a room block, you are securing perks for both you and your guests. When you simply recommend a hotel, there are no perks but you also have no financial obligation! Use these guiding principles to help in the decision making process when comparing hotels and looking at contracts.

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5 THINGS I’M GLAD I DID AT MY WEDDING!

I could list a million amazing things about my wedding because, IT WAS MY WEDDING YO! Everyone’s wedding is their best day ever, and that’s why weddings are great! There are so many warnings, “don’ts” “do’s” or “what if’s” revolving around planning a wedding, so take this fun positive spin on advice for planning your big day.

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HOW TO GET AHEAD BEFORE YOU EVEN START PLANNING!

Now everyone and their mom is asking you when you’re getting married. And where you’re getting married. And when you’re having kids. And what your social security number is. AND IT’S BEEN FIVE MINUTES.

Yep, yep, we’ve all been there. Hot dang your friends and family are excited for you, which is exciting! And scary. And overwhelming. So, how can you get ahead before you event start?

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THE WEDDING BINDER THAT WORKED FOR ME!

What is the first thing most engaged couples get for a gift or purchase for themselves? A wedding planning binder! I was pursuing the bookstore shortly after Wade proposed and found the perfect one.

The binder did guide you through what to do next because it had you document certain aspects of the planning journey. It simply didn’t stress a timeline or the “do nots”. It truly focused on the incredibly neat side of being engaged- exploring what “meeting in the middle” means to you and your partner, bonding with your soon to be in-laws when dress shopping, digging every cake tasting appointment and more!

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WHY A SEATING CHART IS A MUST HAVE

Guest experience is a hot topic and one that should be top of mind when making most, if not all, wedding decisions. Having a seating chart can greatly enhance guest experience by giving your guests a purpose. From elaborate to simple and statement piece to a gorgeous accent, there are an endless number of seating chart options. Check out four of our absolute favs!

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5 THINGS I WISH I KNEW BEFORE MY WEDDING

The hubs and I (Elizabeth) tied the knot in 2016. I was desk-bound during the planning process and got sucked into the Pinterest rabbit hole more often than I’d like to admit. 14 months after Wade popped the question we said, “I do” and it was the most perfect day, but trust me, there were plenty of learning lessons along the way. These five things I wish I knew before my wedding day are easily avoidable and some of them won’t dip into the $$$ at all!

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5 DATE NIGHT HOT SPOTS IN KANSAS CITY

Whether you’ve been engaged for five minutes or five months, taking a break from wedding planning can be soooooo needed. Maybe you’ve been married for five years and you want to try a new restaurant for a night out! Or maybe you’re like the hubs and I and go on a date night once a month and are looking for a new dig. Check out these five Kansas City date night hot spots that are sure to rock your taste buds and provide a grand ol’ time!

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5 WEDDING FAVORS YOUR GUESTS ACTUALLY WANT

Have you ever attended a wedding and left that koozie because you already have 40 others? Ate enough cake so you don’t want to take home the little box of Hershey kisses? If you aren’t doing wedding favors simply because you’ve been that guest that left theirs at the table, then check out these five neat wedding favor ideas your guests will LOVE (and, bonus, most of them support local small businesses)!

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THREE QUICK & EASY KID FRIENDLY WEDDING IDEAS

Alright- this is a judgement free zone. If you don’t want to have a kid-friendly wedding, it’s your day and your choice! If you DO want to have a kid-friendly affair, we know that it can be hard to know how to cater to the little ones if you don’t yet have little ones!

These fun ideas are sure to keep the kiddos entertained throughout your wedding!

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WELCOMING SUMMER WEDDING WITH A DASH OF SOUTHERN CHARM

Kristen and Austin wanted a welcoming wedding with a hint of Southern charm and HOT DANG did they nail it. Their Friday June wedding had absolutely perfect weather for their outdoor ceremony and cocktail hour. The lawn was dawned with lounge furniture and modern touches while staying true to the timeless Hawthorne House feel.

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ALL THINGS CATERING WITH EMILY REMPEL

If you’ve met me for longer than five seconds you know I have a DEEP love for Brancato’s. Of course one of the reasons is because of their stellar food, but they are my top choice for a wedding caterer because of their service. Catering can truly make or break a wedding day. You want a caterer who is going to bring extra flatware because they know some will get dropped. You want a caterer who will refresh a buffet before your guests even know anything was out! Most importantly, you want a caterer who will be transparent about pricing and flexible with building the menu you want. Check out these quick tips on what you should look out for in a caterer and what the experience is like!

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HOW TO PREPARE FOR YOUR FINAL WALKTHROUGH

You are officially on the final stretch with roughly 30 days out from your big day! After months (or even years!) of planning, every details you have thought about and decision you have made is about to come into fruition. The venue final walk through will be the last time you are onsite before your rehearsal or wedding day. This is the time to ask any final questions and clarify last minute details. Your venue will also have a plethora of details to discuss, so use this as a guide so you can know what to expect.

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SEVEN STELLAR IDEAS ON PLANNING THROUGH COVID-19

In a world of negative news and all the doom and gloom...shift your focus to the positives. I know this can be "easier said than done" when you've invested tons of time, money, and energy into your plans. But keep your focus on the good things to come like...marrying your best friend, being healthy, having vendors who have helped transition your original wedding to a new postponed date or helped with details to bring your vision to life with the new normal. Please remember that this time won't last forever. We are all in this together and we will come out stronger.

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NEUTRAL ROMANTIC SUMMER WEDDING

Samantha and Jared thoughtfully planned each and every detail of their romantic summer wedding, down to the vows they said at the altar. Their neutral color palette brought their classy and organic vision to life. With mismatched bridesmaid dresses and greenery dawned place settings, this summer affair was perfectly planned and seamlessly executed.

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4 HEAD TABLE LOCATIONS FOR LARGE WEDDING PARTIES

When making a list of everyone you want in your wedding party, drawing the line is crazy hard. You have BFFs from the first grade, gal pals you bonded with in Chem 101 and sorority sisters you can’t NOT have in your bridal party. Not to mention your future sister-in-laws, your brother’s long time girlfriend and the cousin you grew up with! Check out these four head table styles that can host large wedding parties while meshing well with your wedding design!

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